Not easy to be a good Sis

It's really difficult to explain the difference of giving an advice and being controlling. It hurts me so much when he told me not to control him. Since when have I been controlling him. I admit that I'm naggy and pushy but I never did lay down any rules for him to follow. I know that he's matured enough to know what to do and what not to do, so I never did manipulate him. I only gave advice which he seldom heed, especially when it comes to rs. Friends advice may be the most pleasant to the ears, but my advice is the most far-sighted yet the most crude one. It's not easy to be the sis, even more difficult to be a good one. Bear with the hardship, swallow the pain, pray that he'll understand me one day.