Sent Ben to the airport last night. He was leaving for Brunei, for 9 days. Though it's shorter than his 3 weeks confinement in OCS, it's more difficult to endure. He is in Brunei and I won't be able to hear from him. No news, no contact for 9 Days! Was feeling very restless today. Suppose to go back YJ for GP lesson with Mrs Teo, but really not in the mood.
Just now my phone rang, felt quite lazy to go back to my room pick it up. But still, I drag myself to my room. Picked up the phone, looked... "Kia Yong" Was wondering why would he call me and was about to reject up the phone, like my usual practice cos most people have free incoming but I don't. Luckily I wasn't so blur for too long. KY is in the same syndicate as Ben. Quickly answered the phone. YES!!! It's really HIM!!! So surprised!!! Only managed to talk for an extremely short while cos Ben said KY was quite angry that he's using his phone. I think Ben snatched his phone instead of borrowing it from him. Haha! =D Anyway, was really relieved that his first day there was alright and he sounded not too bad. Hope he won't suffer too much there and the experience will make him a stronger person.
For these 9 days, I guess I'll be missing him like mad. Have become to dependent on him, especially after the majors setbacks. He's always there for me to comfort me that I've developed an extremely strong attachment to him. This is not really good for me. It makes me weak and I get weaker, cos he's my reason to live, to try making my life better. All that I'm doing now is not for myself. I don't have the right attitude towards facing my future. Maybe these 9 days without Ben beside me will allow me some time to reflect upon my attitude towards life and what I really want to achieve. Can't just selfishly depend on Ben to take care of me for the rest of my life. He's working towards being my perfect partner, I shall also learn to be a better person to become his perfect partner that he deserves to have.
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